O, yes
I always thought it was a myth that there are certain sex positions
that can help a woman climax faster and better. Say it isn't so? If this
is true, why haven't we been schooling our men? I took my inquiry to
the sex-perts and uncovered that there are, in fact, such positions.
Obviously, I'm going to share them with you -- that way, we can all be
having the best sex of our lives! Read on for the top 10 sex positions
for achieving mind-blowing orgasms.
1 The butterfly position or modified missionary
"With the woman on her back and
her hips on the edge of the bed, the man penetrates her while standing.
She then puts her legs over his shoulders and tilts her hips slightly
upwards. This gives a wonderful angle for cervical stimulation with deep
penetration that can produce some intense vaginal and uterine orgasms.
With more shallow penetration, a man can stimulate the anterior vaginal
wall to hit the G-spot."
--Dr. Madeleine M. Castellanos, a psychiatrist who specializes in sex therapy
2 Modified coital alignment technique
"A couple starts off in missionary position. Once a man penetrates a
woman deeply, he allows her to bring her legs together between his. He
then shifts his weight slightly forward so that the shaft of his
erection is producing firm pressure and friction on her clitoris as he
moves. This works very well for women that prefer to have clitoral
stimulation during penetration to reach a very powerful orgasm."
--Dr. Castellanos
3 Baring the scepter
"Either partner can perform this technique, although the bottom person's
hands may be more able to pull it off. Form a ring with thumb and
forefinger around the base of the penis. Then, pull down so the skin on
the shaft is taut. This exposes more nerve endings and increases the
penis' sensitivity -- it can also help maintain his erection. Engage in
intercourse with your hand still encircling the base to send his
pleasure soaring."
--Jaiya, new world sex educator and author of "Red Hot Touch"
4 The counter top
"This is my favorite. It's when the woman is laying on her back on the
counter or table while he enters standing. It's rough. There's pushing
aside of papers, pepper shakers which add to the sense of urgency and
inappropriateness. It's easy to maneuver and move the woman to slide
along the counter. There is still contact. He goes deep and feels in
control. It works all the way around. The keys are clothing, stuff in
the way, and being in an open space. Still allows for connection while
feeling dirty. It just works on so many levels. It's not about acrobats.
It's about context."
--Margaret Wagner, sex expert and founder of Bedroom Matters
5 The seated scissors
"This position allows the woman to have the control in order to
determine the depth and angle of penetration, as well as how much
clitoral stimulation she gets. With the man laying flat on his back and
his knees bent, she straddles him with one leg to the side of his hip,
and the other leg between his legs. The woman can then find just the
right spot to grind against his pubic bone with him inside her. She
controls the pace, the depth, and the amount of pressure and friction
she receives. This is definitely a prescription for mind-blowing sex!"
--Dr. Castellanos
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